Children And Dogs
Every child should have a pet, preferably a dog, but then I'm biased. They teach children so many things, to care for another creature in an unselfish way, loyalty and even the facts of life, and death. All this helps to make a child able to better interact not only with animals but also with fellow humans and allows them to grow into a well balanced and caring adult.
If you decide to bring a dog into your household with your children it is important that both dog and children have guidelines. The dog hopefully will be brought up using 'Amichien Bonding' which will ensure he behaves correctly, but it is advisable to teach the children how to interact with the new addition to the family before he arrives and gets swamped by over-excited playmates. The following tips may be of use to you.
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Treat a dog as you would like to be treated, don't pull their ears or tails. Never shout at them, they don't forget how you treat them.
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Even if he looks kind, don't approach him. If he wants to come to you he will.
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Avoid things that might threaten the dog. e.g. backing it in a corner, Running at it, shouting at it.
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Never look the dog in the eyes, he may take it as an invitation to fight.
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Don't go near his tail, don't pull it or step on it. He uses it the express feelings. Do not pull ears either.
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Don't disturb a dog when he's eating and never try to take his food away, he'll defend it instinctively.
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When you play with him don't pet him near his teeth. He likes catching things and it could be your fingers.
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Never try to separate fighting dogs, go and get help from an adult you know.
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Whether you are afraid or not, never run away from a dog he'll take it as an invitation to chase you.
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You have two hands, he has only his teeth to hold on to you. Often you may think he wants to bite but he may only want to hold on to you.
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Only play with a dog when you are with an adult, dogs respect them more because they are larger.
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Never play tug-of-war.
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No two dogs are the same, you have to get to know them. Treat them kindly and gently and gain their respect.
If you are expecting a few children into the house then put the dog in a safe place. If the children are getting over excited with the new addition, give them breathing space apart.
Your 4 legged friend will thank you for it!
